Temitope Ajibola

The rude awakening of graduating from a Nigerian university does not come with the convocation gown, the pictures with your parents, or the long motivational captions on Instagram. The real awakening happens in the first week you start working and quietly realize something deeply uncomfortable: you spent four or five years in the university, and […]

There are some things Nigerians will defend with the passion of a lawyer handling a billion-naira corruption case… even when everybody involved knows the thing has absolutely no business being defended. But the moment the debate starts, logic quietly excuses itself. Suddenly, people are providing childhood stories, village traditions, and their grandmother’s opinion as evidence.

Ah, Nigerian men… where do we even start? Nigerian girls have officially reached peak exhaustion, explaining the same things over and over again. Honestly, some of these explanations are now eligible for a PhD dissertation in patience. You know what I mean. Let’s unpack the classics, the stuff that makes a Nigerian woman sigh, roll